Posts Tagged ‘San Diego’

Zap this bigot in the bud

Wednesday, March 10th, 2010

Lorie Zapf wants to replace City Councilmember Donna Frye, but she might not be all that comfy hanging with some of San Diego’s other elected officials, according to CityBeat’s Justin McLachlan:

“I absolutely want to keep homosexuals out of public office and not be allowed to influence our schools, textbooks, altering marriage, children, and on and on,’ [San Diego City Council wannabe Lorie] Zapf wrote in a 2006 e-mail exchange obtained by CityBeat between her and James Hartline, an anti-gay activist.

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She also made it a point to tell him she supported his cause: “I like that you are trying to keep homosexuals and homosexual activists out of public office because we both know what the long term agenda is.” And later: “I do believe homosexuality is a sin. I have three homosexual first cousins. I love them all and would ‘be seen’ in a photo with them. I believe they all live in sin and frankly all are very unhappy people and had horrible childhoods as well.”

Has Zapf progressed from those statements?

When presented with copies of the e-mail, Zapf said her comments to Hartline “do not accurately reflect my views or actions then or now. For many years prior and after this e-mail, I’ve hired gays in my business and have endorsed gays for elected office. But, I recognize my words may still be hurtful, and I apologize for them sincerely.”

And … puft! … as if by magic, her comments vanished in a puff of rainbow-colored patchouli smoke and we all lived happily ever after and got along famously.

Not.

One thing to remember: Closeted homophobia festers in the dark looking for a release.

Truth Wins Out fundraiser tonight

Friday, March 5th, 2010

Come out tonight and meet and greet Wayne Besen.

Besen is the Founder of Truth Wins Out, a non-profit organization that defends the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community against anti-gay misinformation, counters the so-called “ex-gay” industry and educates America about the lives of LGBT people. Besen is also the author of Anything But Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth and Bashing Back: Wayne Besen on GLBT People, Politics, and Culture. In 2006, Besen was named one of the Advocate Magazine’s “People of the Year” for his work with TWO.

While in San Diego, Besen will be also speaking on Saturday at Just Love, a day-long conference on the menace of the so called ‘ex-gay’ movement. Demonstrations at the site of the concurrent ‘ex-gay’ conference, Love Won Out, are planned.

Bryan H. Wildenthal and Ashish Agrawal are hosting the event that will feature both Wayne Besen and a very special guest, the best-selling author, Patricia Nell Warren, whose book The Front Runner is a landmark in LGBT lit.

Cocktails and food will be served. (Catered by Judy Forman’s Big Kitchen, 3003 Grape St. in Golden Hill). For additional information, click here.

Getting to Garlow’s to greet the ‘ex-gays’

Friday, March 5th, 2010

How many thousands of San Diego’s taxpayer’s dollars will the paranoid pastor squander on security this time? (graphic: We Don’t Buy the “Ex-Gay” Lie!)

Here’s a handy-dandy-how-to-get-to Jim Garlow’s ‘Mighty Fortress for the Lord, Inc.‘ for those interested in protesting the unfabulous ‘ex-gay’s’ Love Won Out prey-away-the-gay-fest this coming Saturday.

Here’s the skinny from the protest’s organizers.

Pastor Jim Garlow is hosting a major anti-gay event on March 6th at his Rancho San Diego Skyline mega-church. Garlow is widely understood to have driven the Prop 8 campaign locally, and promotes the idea that homosexuality is a ’sin’ and that a person can be cured by embracing-his-doctrine of Christianity. The ‘Ex-Gay Ministry’ parades around a tiny handful of speakers who claim to have been ‘cured,’ but it is widely known that people who undergo these browbeatings more often than not end up feeling more depressed, more conflicted, and more self-hating. It’s time to call it like it is: Jim Garlow is a promoter of homophobia, not families or safe, happy living, or whatever else he uses as cover.

Details for both demonstrations:

Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010

First Rally: 7:00am – 8:30 am (to greet them as they arrive)
Second Rally: 1pm – 2:30 pm (these times allow for you to attend one or both AND the shadow conference)

Location: Near Skyline Wesleyan Church
Street: 11330 Campo Rd
City: La Mesa, CA
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Here’s all you need to know about Jim Garlow:

The pastor of Skyline Church is no stranger to LGBT Californians, nor to our families, friends and allies. Pastor Jim Garlow claimed responsibility for jump-starting Prop 8, the California ballot initiative that took away the existing right of LGBT couples to marry; was the driving force behind the pre-2008-Election, anti-gay rally, TheCall, at Qualcomm Stadium; traveled to DC to oppose The Matthew Shepard & James Byrd Jr Hate Crimes Prevention Act; was one of the original signatories of the blueprint for American theocracy called The Manhattan Declaration; and, most recently, tried (unsuccessfully) to worm out of testifying in the Perry v Schwarzenegger Prop 8 trial.

And, this so-called “Christian” actually flew in to take part in a 90-minute televised prey-away-the-healthcare-reform prayercast sponsored by Tony Perkins‘ gay-hating Family Research Council and featuring Garlow’s buddy, Shaky Lou Engle. Be sure to scroll down and check out the video evidence of Pastor Jim Garlow explaining how providing access to healthcare for uninsured and underinsured Americans violates the Ten Commandments.

No. I’m not kidding.

Just Love: Scheduled speakers

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010

Just Love — A Statewide Challenge to the Ex-Gay Movement

Here is an updated list of speakers who will be addressing Just Love. The program will be hosted at St Paul’s Cathedral in San Diego this coming Saturday, 6 March 2010, from 9:00 am – 5:00 pm. The day-long event will challenge Exodus International’s Love Won Out “ex-gay” and conversion therapy conference that is being staged simultaneously at Pastor Jim Garlow’s Skyline Church in La Mesa, which will, by the way, be the site of anti-ex-gay demonstrations at various times during the course of the day (click here for details).

Just Love kicks off at 9:00 am with a welcome and opening remarks by Rev Canon Albert Ogle, Vice President for National and International Affairs, Integrity USA, who also serves as a Director of the California Council of Churches Impact Board, and The Very Rev. Scott Richardson, Dean of St Paul’s Episcopal and Anglican Cathedral.

Featured speakers will include:

Wayne Besen

Wayne Besen, is the Founder of Truth Wins Out, a non-profit organization that defends the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community against anti-gay misinformation, counters the so-called “ex-gay” industry and educates America about the lives of LGBT people, and author of Anything But Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth and Bashing Back: Wayne Besen on GLBT People, Politics, and Culture. In 2006, Besen was named one of the Advocate Magazine’s “People of the Year” for his work with TWO.

Louise Brooks is a former Television Producer and is a consultant with California Faith for Equality and the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). Louise is also the Secretary to Integrity USA and coordinated the successful media campaign at the 2009 General Convention where the Episcopal Church passed legislation to open all employment and membership opportunities to LGBT people. Louise is also the media consultant for Rev. Mary Glasspool who was recently elected ad the first openly lesbian bishop of the Diocese of Los Angeles.

Jim Burroway

Jim Burroway, writer and Editor of Box Turtle Bulletin. Jim was the first to sound the alarm on the intensifying anti-LGBT climate in Uganda that has led to a bill before the Ugandan Parliament that has sparked international outrage. Read Burroway’s astonishing roundup of articles: Slouching Towards Kampala: Uganda’s Deadly Embrace of Hate.

Michael Bussee, after co-founding Exodus International in 1979, left the group and became an outspoken critic of the organization. Today Bussee is a licensed Marriage and Family therapist, a father, an evangelical Christian, and a proud gay man.

Dr Amity Pierce Buxton, author of The Other Side of the Closet: The Coming-Out Crisis for Straight Spouses and Families, founded the Straight Spouse Network (SSN) to support straight spouses whose partners came out as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender partners and mixed-orientation or trans/nontrans couples.

Rev Dr Paul Egertson

The Rev Dr Paul Egertson, is Senior Lecturer in Religion at California Lutheran University, Thousand Oaks, CA. From 1995 through 2001 he served as Bishop of the Southwest California Synod, Evangelical Lutheran Church in America. He is on the Board of Directors of Soulforce, Inc., and a member of the Covenant Circle for Extraordinary Lutheran Ministries. He has received a number of awards for over 25 years of activism within the Lutheran churches on behalf of equality for LGBTQ people and resigned one month before his term of office was completed following controversy over ordaining the first openly lesbian pastor in the Lutheran Church. He and his wife Shirley have been married for 54 years and are the parents of six sons (one gay, five straight). They enjoy over a dozen grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Susan Guinn is the lead partner in the Law Offices of Susan Guinn in San Diego and served on the Board of Directors of Equality California. She is married to Denice Feldhaus and they have two children, Gavin and Max.

Scott Long

Scott Long is the Director of the LGBT Rights Division of Human Rights Watch, the international non-governmental organization that conducts research and advocacy on human rights. Long holds a Ph.D. from Harvard University, and has taught at the University of Budapest, as well as holding a Fulbright lectureship at the University of Cluj-Napoca in Romania. Long has documented and advocated against human rights violations based on sexual orientation, gender identity, and HIV status.  For five years he lobbied the United Nations on sexual rights issues; his work led to U.N. human rights mechanisms agreeing publicly for the first time to take up gay and lesbian concerns.

Carlos Marquez is Director of Public Programs and Community Affairs at the San Diego LGBT Center.

Joshua Romero

Joshua Romero is the HRC Religious Liaison in San Diego. He was raised in Baptist, Assembly of God, Nazarene, and non-denominational churches. A few months after coming out to his family during his senior year at Point Loma Nazarene University, he attended a Love Won Out conference in St. Louis with his family, where he witnessed first-hand the emotional and psychological damage of the ex-gay movement on LGBT persons and their parents. His friends’ stories and faith challenges have inspired him to the create Solace, a peer support group for people of faith during the coming out process.

Andrea Shorter

Andrea Shorter is the Deputy Director Marriage Equality, Equality California. She is a coalition building strategist for marriage equality and long term civil and human rights movement work. Andrea’s occupations have included Director, And Marriage For All; and Deputy Executive Director, Names Project Foundation/AIDS Memorial Quilt. She studied abroad in Denmark and traveled extensively ’round the world through Europe, Holland, Russia, Israel, Palestine, and South Africa. Andrea has been a proud Castro resident for nearly 20 years and is immersed in the fight for marriage equality, particularly with faith and minority communities.

Protest to coincide with ‘ex-gay’ confab

Friday, February 26th, 2010

We Don’t Buy the “Ex-Gay” Lie!

Demonstrations on Saturday 6 March 2010 will coincide with an all-day conference being held in San Diego at St Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral as an alternative to the Exodus International/Focus on the Family Love Won Out conference slated for Jim Garlow’s Skyline Church in La Mesa at the same time.

From the demonstration’s organizers:

We Don’t Buy the “Ex-Gay” Lie!

Pastor Jim Garlow is hosting a major anti-gay event on March 6th at his Rancho San Diego Skyline mega-church. Garlow is widely understood to have driven the Prop 8 campaign locally, and promotes the idea that homosexuality is a ’sin’ and that a person can be cured by embracing -his- doctrine of Christianity. The ‘Ex-Gay Ministry’ parades around a tiny handful of speakers who claim to have been ‘cured,’ but it is widely known that people who undergo these browbeatings more often than not end up feeling more depressed, more conflicted, and more self-hating. It’s time to call it like it is: Jim Garlow is a promoter of homophobia, not families or safe, happy living, or whatever else he uses as cover.

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Scheduled demonstrations:

  • 1st Rally: 7am-8:30am (to greet them as they arrive)
  • 2nd Rally: 1pm-2:30pm (these times allow for you to attend one or both AND the shadow conference, details are below)

Details:

Date: Saturday, March 6, 2010
Time: Listed above
Location: Near Skyline Wesleyan Church
Street: 11330 Campo Rd
City/Town: La Mesa, CA
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The demonstrations coincide with an all day conference called Just LoveA Statewide Challenge to the Ex-Gay Movement at St Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral in San Diego.

Another all-day, shadow conference will be held at St. Paul’s Cathedral in Mid-Town. It is coming together as a very interesting series of panels and workshops discussing every angle of combatting this harmful, phony ministry. Find more information at the link.